Sign me up!
On my other vanilla(ish) Tumblr, I mention the fact we both have FWB’s and what not but not often. Someone asked me via anon about our “swinging” so I thought I’d share the backstory…
I’ve been on Tumblr for three years and I’m pretty sure this is the second anon I’ve ever gotten. Whoo hooo! :) Also, this post may self-destruct because it’s a bit more detailed than I usually get here… Pretty sure I’ll move it to the other blog later.
Anyway, wife mentioned shortly before children came around (damn near 15 years ago) that she had a dream about me, her and another guy in a hot tub where she was the center of attention. She was afraid I’d be pissed, but I thought it was hot. It was just talk though.
After both kids came around, we started talking about it again and created profiles on some of the swingers personals sites. Just talked with others, talked with each other about what we wanted, what we were comfortable with, etc. for a good few years. Tough to have time and energy for that with small children. Eventually, we ended up meeting a few single guys. She’d play, I’d watch and then join in later.
Over the years, we’ve done a couple swingers clubs, gone out with some couples, had several threesomes with other guys. Lately, we gotten a bit more into playing separately mostly because we’re four hours away from each other during the week. Would rather play together, but can be fun to hear about it later though too.
Anon, feel free to reach out and I’ll share a bit more. Honestly, this is a tad more than I wanted to share here on this blog, but on the other hand I’ve shared most of this before two or three years ago.
Thanks for asking! And kinda sorry to those of you that didn’t want to hear this, but not entirely. :)
Usually save the bullets for the other vanilla(ish) Tumblr, but felt the need…
I’m gonna hope that English is a second language on this one…
A Valentines day treat for you all ❤️
I never blog full body pics, I think this is a first xxxx (so you’d better like and reblog the hell out if it as it will be a long wait to the next one!!!)
Not one to reblog without permission, but since she said to reblog the hell out of it I’m inclined to follow direction.
Going to meet a new girl I met on OKCupid tonight for beer. Very cute, we’re a 96% match and she’s a bit out of my league. Whoo hoo!
I might be drinking moonshine. And already a bit buzzed. On a school night. This could get out of hand. You’ve been warned. :)
So I mentioned yesterday that I had the possibility of meeting two different girls yesterday or this weekend. I met Girl #1 for a drink at Applebee’s. I could probably have done a little better on finding someone in the looks department honestly, but still a cute girl. Went pretty well. Conversation flowed well, very little to no lulls.
After a couple drinks, I offer to take us back to my place. I should mention that there was MAJOR flirting in emails and texts before meeting. We come back to my place and were making out almost immediately. Clothes hitting the floor happened relatively quickly.
Sex was pretty good with the exception of when I was working my way down to go down on her and she says “I guess I should admit that it’s been three years for me”. WTF?! How to hell do I find these girls?!
Long story short, things wen’t well and I may end up seeing her again assuming she doesn’t get clingy and shit.
Girl #2 ended up cancelling, but it was understandable. She’s a nurse and had just finished a stretch of 12 days on. On top of that, she was loaded down with kid stuff all day. She wanted to but just didn’t have the energy. Totally understandable. It was pretty funny though because the conversation sounded just like the James Earl Jones phone commercial: ”I’m tired, but I want to go out”. Will probably get together at some point later this week. Very good chemistry with her via text/kik, so I’m looking forward to meeting her.
As for wifey, she was talking to a couple guys she met online, but hasn’t met anyone. Keep trying to get her to relax, stop stressing and maybe meet some guys as stress relief, but it hasn’t worked lately. I’ll keep trying. :)